Listen up, Warrior: This is simple—make daily investments in your spouse. Picture it like a bank account: you can’t make a withdrawal if you haven’t made deposits. Basic? Absolutely. Yet powerful. While you’re hustling at work, she’s either crushing it in her career or managing the fortress and the kids. That’s no walk in the park. Don’t get it twisted—try handling the house and kids solo and see how you fare.
So, what’s your move? It’s the little things that matter. Send her a text telling her you love her. Express gratitude—thank her for what she does for you, the kids, or how she handles everything. Leave love notes on the fridge, do the laundry or the dishes. The list goes on. But here’s the key: make a heartfelt deposit daily.
Wondering why your love life is lacking? It’s because you haven’t held up your end of the deal. If she feels overlooked, unseen, unloved, your bacon-bringing isn’t gonna cut it for intimacy. That’s not how it works. Make those daily gestures, fill the account, and when it’s time for a withdrawal (you know what I mean), she’ll be ready. Account full, love thriving.
Lastly, a NON NEGOTIABLE- you MUST have a date night. Every week. Keep the spice alive, and treat her like you did when you first got together. Reignite that spark!